Hosting a French exchange student can be an enriching experience, offering a unique opportunity to learn about another culture firsthand. However, to ensure a smooth and enjoyable stay for your family and the student, it’s essential to be aware of cultural differences and practical considerations. Here are key points to remember before welcoming a French student into your home.
UNDERSTANDING CULTURAL DIFFERENCES
Meal Times and Social Activities
French families typically eat meals later than their American counterparts. As Kathrine Lafourcade of the French American Chamber of Commerce – Atlanta notes, “Families in France eat lunch and dinner later than in the US.” Lunch often happens around 1 PM, and dinner can be as late as 8 or 9 PM. Adapting to these meal times can help your exchange student feel more at home.
Additionally, French families tend to have different social habits. “French families are less involved in church activities, and also sports are much less of a focus,” says Lafourcade. While sports and church might be central to your family’s routine, understanding that your student might not share these interests can help you find common ground. Encourage them to share their hobbies and interests, including other activities such as art, music, or literature.
TRANSPORTATION AND DAILY SCHEDULES
The structure of the school day also varies significantly. “Schedules are also very different – each day has different classes,” explains Lafourcade. Unlike the more fixed schedules often found in American schools, French students might be used to a more varied timetable. Helping them navigate this difference will be crucial in easing their transition.
A group of YFU exchange student enjoying a moment by the river.
MAKING THE EXPERIENCE ENJOYABLE
Language and Cultural Exchange
Hosting a French student is a fantastic way for your family to learn new language skills. As Lafourcade highlights, “Hosting a student is a great way to learn a little language and taste other cultural elements, such as cuisine and different celebrations.” Please encourage your student to teach you some French phrases and share their favorite recipes. This exchange can foster a deeper bond and mutual appreciation.
A YFU Host Family sharing the Halloween tradition of pumpkin carving with their French exchange student.
CELEBRATIONS AND TRADITIONS
French culture has unique celebrations and traditions that your student might enjoy sharing with family. Be open to learning about French holidays such as Bastille Day or regional festivals they might be fond of. Similarly, sharing your family’s traditions will give your students a sense of inclusion and community.
A group of YFU France students listening.
PRACTICAL TIPS FOR A SMOOTH STAY
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Set Clear Expectations: Discuss house rules and daily routines early to avoid misunderstandings. Cover topics like meal times, chores, and curfews.
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Provide a Comfortable Space: Ensure your student has a private, comfortable space to retreat to. This will help them feel more at home.
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Be Patient and Understanding: Cultural adjustment can take time. Be patient and open-minded as your student navigates new experiences.
Knowing these cultural differences and practical considerations, your family can provide your French exchange student with a welcoming and supportive environment. This experience enriches the student’s life and allows your family to broaden their horizons and create lasting memories.
